Can you spot it?

"Dusty" previous blog that I've blogged was about the differences between men and women when they are in a relationship-Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I've already finished that book years ago, literally have no any clue on what is on a man' mind YET! Well, vice versa, I'm supposed!

Ever thought of that we can actually learn a lot about a guy by eyeing him below his belt? (Ahhhem! That's not what I meant.) What I mean was, eyeing him on HOW HE STANDS!

His legs:
If he has a narrow stance, he feels vulnerable. If he has a wide stance, however, he's conveying that he can't be pushed around. (Yes, precisely!!!)

His feets:
They'll face toward wahtever he's interested in. So if they point toward you, that's good. If only his head faces you, his mind is probably elsewhere.... Just take a look of his feet sometimes..... GIRLS, puh-lease... Don't keep staring at his feet while you're talking to your boyfriend, he might think that you're up to something for some reason.... ><

His toes:
If he momentarily goes up on his tip-toes while talking, he's feeling sure of himself. And if he rocks back on his heels so that his toes point upward, that mean he is happy.However, lies are somehow important for all of us in our lives... You cannot have a FAMILY without "LY" (lie). So... It's good to not to know that your whoever has tell lies straight to your face at some point!

BUT

If you desperately need to find out that your-whoever is telling lie or not, know it from his/her body language!

Notice the Body Language of Lies:

• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.

Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.

• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

Notice his/her interactions and reactions

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his/her questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.

Listen to his/her verbal context and contents!

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off (how can a person tells when his/her grammar is off while the person has no good grammar skill?). In other words, his/her sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.

*temporarily boredom relief ={

Anyway, just because some people exhibit one or more of these behavior does not make them a liar.... Don't keep accusing people around you.... This will definitely turn you into some sort of maniac! The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (norma l) behavior whenever possible. =D